Gay Pakistani

The author of this blog is not gay. So morons who have been messaging him should fucking stay away. This was just a post to fill up the blog.
I haven't been feeling well for a few days. The doctors have advised me to take a complete rest.It started with a minor throat infection which deteriorated due to my negligence. The gland called Lymph in my neck swelled resulting severe pain in my entire right side of the skull. I am on heavy pain killers these days. After running back and forth between various physicians and surgeons for a few days I am seeing an ENT surgeon now. My doc says that if the swelling doesn't go away by Tuesday,it must be operated. I am pretty much sure that I don't want it surgically removed.The idea of lying under a doctor 's knife is not so good. But I would do anything to get rid of this pain permanently. 
So the other day while I was watching TV with this pain-killer-induced-bed-rest of mine that doctors has suggested,the local news channels ran a news about a gay couple who got caught red handed marrying each other. According to the channels a gay man Malik Iqbal (real name) 48 of Peshawar was trying to marry this 18 years old gay Hijra Kashif alias Rani. The police also arrested about 48 guests mostly Hijras (eunuchs) who were later brought to the court and by court's order sent to jail.

My senses must have gotten weak by my illness or something because I almost puked in disgust.And this is Peshawar we are talking about, God Dammit. The land of great pukhtoons who are always proud of their moral values, the fire arms is believed to be their JEWELERY. 
But it turns out that the Pathan will fight against you in the name of Allah, their lands, women and their gay partners too. Such experiences in Allah's own country appear unreal. The law about sodomy or whatever do you want to call it clearly states in the constitution of Pakistan "the homosexual is not accepted as a decent individual, and homosexual acts constitute an offense punishable with imprisonment for life or with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years."

Pakistan is under great influence of the GAY, In early 90's that used to be heard as the way of villagers or the act's of Pathans but now from every walk of life,one can find GAY sex very easily. I have witnessed lads of the elite class and the modern desi branded GAYS equally attracted to the same sex, one can find the reading very easy by seeing the moods and trends of these cute lads.There are sites online for Pakistani gays where they socialize and find their mates. There's also a gay chat room  on IRC which happens to be the most popular love finding tool on the Internet for homos in Pakistan and UAE, in fact Pakistani gays are highly in demand with their UAE counterparts.

On dal.net a popular chat hosting server on IRC a chat room is named after Pakistani gays #gaypakistani. If you are gay you'll be happy to find that Pakis are in good numbers on that chat room from every walk of life to every city of Pakistan. I have come across gays from a labor to elite class from all ages and these new trends are not derived of the recent invasions of Internet in Pakistan, and believe me when I say they have always been here, its just that they are using the Technology to their benefit.

Well, I wish I had known some Pakistani Lezbians as well. The thing with the lezbians is that they wont admit as openly as a gay of Upper Punjab or Lahore or even Islamabad would do.Karachi too is not far behind its catching up with the gay trend.
In fact studies have been found on and via Internet off course, that Karachi beaches and Clifton areas are getting lots of Gay attraction. There are reported areas popular for gay meet ups in Karachi. Do these places equally attract and are visited by the lesbians ? I don't have any idea. Lesbians always fancy me, the things they do to each other in the porn has always been my weakness.

In other regions of Pakistan like in the conservative regions of the province Khyber Pakthoonkhwa it is socially acceptable for pathan men to take up young boys for sexual pleasure. But don't rush to fancy the country as some liberal outpost where life is all about celebrating individual choices. Many homosexual relationships there are not a result of two gay people wanting to make love but consequences of aggression and abuse by the strong on the weak. It is less love and more rape.In religious schools (madrassa) the gay activity is on the rise. Many such incidents of child molestation are reported by the press in these madrassas and mosques every month in the press. But sadly not enough has been done by the government or other organizations in this regard. 
Historically, pederasty, gratification of sexual pleasures between older men and pubescent boys, was so universally established and practiced that it has found ample space in Pakistan's literature, poetry and other forms of communication used by the common man.

Following the capture of Islamabad's Chinese masseuses by the dreaded burka students of the all-girls conservative Islamic school Jamia Hafsa back in June 2007, Abdul Rashid Ghazi, who led the men's school, drafted a ruling as I remember. He declared "If you want massage treatment, men should go to men, and women should go to women." Gay Pakistanis should gleefully catch the hint. 

But why we cant be trusted?

I have been thinking about how dating sites and personal classifieds in papers and now on line work efficiently in countries other than Pakistan with the exception of a few countries off course.According to latest online surveys not only these sites are earning money but people who use mostly end up meeting some one through these mediums. Even India has been noticed to earn reputation in online dating phenomenon. People are getting married after getting hooked up online and in India this figure has increased over the last two years. Unfortunately in Pakistan there's not much to avail. If you are not going to college anymore and your job doesn't offer you opportunities to be at places where you can find dates, you are nowhere on the dating map. When I look at my options I see that there are no clubs, no night activities, no dating services. The few that has gained popularity are still the ones that do not provide any data from Pakistan. People at most are familiar with Facebook and Orkut that too is mostly choked up with spam and fake profiles. So what does this bring me to ? I am baffled. Is it because we cant be trusted or we don't like to trust others. And does that mean its a dead end for a guy like me in Pakistan. I mean I am a fairly good looking (read average) educated and privileged but single guy who loves his work and travels often. Since online mediums don't work here in Pakistan so we know that for sure and I am confused with my options.

First thing first.

I have been contemplating getting a blog site on line of my own for sometime now. It hasn't been easy, seriously because first of I am not a writer and don't have those writing skills with proficient vocabulary and secondly I don't have that much time on my hands to be able to sit down and think for topics to cover for this blog. This blog is basically the result of amalgamation of my loneliness and my frequent nation wide trips.

Getting myself registered itself was heck of a task. I started out with a couple of refresher tutorials and all.I had reserved this title and space for me quite sometime back and now at this time (while I am traveling out of city alone and in my hotel room with three beers and a joint down) I can manage to speak of things that I usually don't. My work allows me to travel frequently. I visited a few countries since this job and all alone but I have refrained myself from doing things that I could do. Not because of any specific religious or any other views but only because I don't feel comfortable around strangers. Guys of my age with the same privileges wont keep themselves distant from things that I keep myself from. For curious bastards out there, I have had a normal life and haven't been molested or anything. I have had a full life and enjoyed every bit of it specially the days that I spent alone ,five years actually.Books, computer and a guitar used to be my main company and a few friends who still are my friends and I miss those days. That was a life time learning experience for me which I am currently benefiting from during my job and life. OK enough of the past I'll conclude by mentioning that I love my life and my job.But thats not it. I am basically here to get dates right??? thats what my blog description says.I don't know how to put it in decent yet simpler words than this that I am single and looking. I have tried shit services on line like face book, Are You Interested and Speeddate.com. Why these services don't work in regions like ours is another story but let me tell you guys these sites are like shit and are only there to get your money. And I am very much hopeful to get attention of charming and talented ladies of the cities that I frequently travel to for friendship and good company by choosing to have this blog.

I'll try to keep posting as much as my work allows me. Thats all for now.